You’re not here to play by the rules. You’ve questioned the system, explored and conquered, maybe even burned a few bridges along the way. But being the rebel has left you isolated, suppressing your rage and not living up to your potential. You want a deeper connection to the world and the people around you, a mission with more structure and clarity.

I turn lone wolves into reluctant leaders: men who are done fighting the world and ready to lead in it — with integrity and a clear worldview.

I use narrative coaching to help you see your life as story in progress.

My goal is to help you simplify, storify and gamify your life. Think of me as a good life ghostwriter, strategic advisor, creative consultant, accounta-billa-buddy, game designer and broach (coach4bros).

As an avid reader and veteran screenwriter, I will pull from a variety of creative sources to help you re-author your life.

The Arthurian Mythology is one of my favorites because he was also a reluctant leader, a warlord turned king. I believe every man needs to build their own Camelot, whether it’s a tight-knit family or a well-run business, and you need a Merlin (coach) to help you find your Excalibur (superpower), so you can battle the Lancelots (rivals).

You came here for a reason (even if you got a nudge from your partner). You want to break your shame-rage-retreat cycle and learn how to communicate more effectively, so you can lead by example.

Book a free session below. I can guide you through one of my narrative gauntlets or we can create a custom package based on your goals.

ABOUT

Bio: Connor was born in SF and worked as a TV writer in LA for many years before moving home and becoming a coach.

Core Wound: Everything is my fault.

Superpower: Finding creative solutions to every problem.

Triggers: OCD control freaks, news junkies & selfish people.

Archetypes: Leo (Zodiac), Manifesting Generator (Human Design) and Type 9: Peacemaker (Enneagram)

Hobbies: Reading books about wars I could have died in, boxing, cooking macro diet meals, house work on mushroom gummies and hiking.

Vanquished Enemies: alcohol, party drugs, pills, chew, porn, sports gambling, Catholic guilt and emotional avoidance (maybe).

Still Battling: victim consciousness, Zynns, rage, self worth, finding a healthy money mindset and people pleasing.

Worldview: Humans are inherently good, but the pressures of civilization make us desperate and selfish. I used to be an atheist, but medicinal journeys have cracked me open to a whole new realm of possibilities.

WHAT i do

Narrative Coach & Community Builder

When people ask me what I do for a living, I have to pause before answering. Our creative landscape exists in a constant state of flux, so my roles and responsibilities evolve with it. 

But if I had to distill my career into a character arc, it would be this: I used to be a creative explorer, now I am a creative architect.

I have wins, losses and wisdom from the trenches in almost every industry: events, publishing, advertising, television, film, branding, coaching and scaling companies/communities.

I help people solve their “who the hell am I,” dilemma then we design a blueprint and a path that helps them unlock their potential.

My superpower is helping people find their superpower.

Narrative Coaches are like ghostwriters for your life story.

We view your life as a story in progress and we rewrite it together.

To reframe the original question, it’s not “what do I do for a living?” but “what do you need?”

A peer to help you curb your impulses and addictions? A ghostwriter for a book? Help designing a course, IRL workshop or Ted Talk? A strategic advisor or an accountability coach?

Or do you just need help identifying your zone of genius, so you can create a project or core offering that helps you stand out.

I’m available for 6 to 12 week contracts.

Let’s storify your life and get to work.